Seven mistakes of American education of children

1. Overstatement - such as "You are the most beautiful girl in the world." With the child's age, they will gradually tell you if the water contains so grown up, others will be skeptical of praise. In addition, parents used to listen to exaggerated praised the children, often far into the community after only listen to good words and listened to the views of the opposite.
2. Personal attacks - such as "Do you like fat pigs." Low intelligence retraining of the children also appreciate the kind words contained in the "malicious" and the soul will be the most destructive. In addition, young children may give up on themselves and believe that the final loss of self-esteem and self-confidence.

3. The threat of intimidation - such as "If I hit a good homework you." Such bravado would threaten the loss of parents of children close and trust.
4. Frosty - such as "you are busy, I do not see it." From these words of a child to hear the unspoken words are: people do I have no interest in the matter, they do not put me as their precious darling.
5. Condescending - such as "you do not have to listen to listen to." If parents do not always "high" to accept criticism when the children will not be able to psychological balance, so even if you criticize a hundred percent right, the children will also be against the heart of oral response.

6. Cynicism - such as "You thought that they were able to why." Children, especially young children fear most is from the mouth of the parents of ridicule. Even if you say those things, with little sense of humor may be, but you know, "Little" have to understand that it is very difficult to correct.
. Absolute negative - such as "You always lie." It is true that the criticism is a child's education, but if saying "no", but may lead to an antagonistic mentality among children, leading to the ultimate refusal to accept such criticism and education.car